Friday, January 9, 2009

Dr. Robert Callaway

Dr. Robert Callaway, Dean of Social Sciences and Human Services at Lorain County Community College, passed away on January 9, 2009. Our thoughts and prayers are with Robert's family as we mourn the loss of our great friend and inspirational leader.

Robert's visitation will be held at Spitzer Center from noon to 4 p.m. on Thursday. Following this, visitation will be from 6-9 p.m. at Second Baptist Church, 427 Chapman Lane, Elyria. Funeral services will be Friday, January 16 at 10 a.m. at Second Baptist Church followed by burial at Brookdale Cemetery in Elyria.

A memorial fund for the benefit of Robert’s family has been established through the Lorain County Community College Foundation. Contributions may be made payable to the LCCC Foundation, c/o Dr. Robert Callaway Memorial Fund, 1005 North Abbe Road, Elyria, OH 44035.

We invite you to share your thoughts and memories about our friend and colleague, Robert Callaway.

100 comments:

  1. I only knew Robert a short while, but was impressed by his optimism and enthusiasm. In one of our short talks he told me of his career journey and talked about his lovely family. I am saddened by his passing and will miss him. My deepest sympathies go out to his immediate family and to his extended LCCC family, as well.

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  2. I have never thought of Robert as a Dr. or a Dean.... he has been my friend. I will miss his spirit, enthusiasm and ready smile.

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  3. This news is so shocking. I am praying for Robert's family and thanking the Lord for blessing us with his friendliness, his life force and his endless energy. He will surely be missed.

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  4. The first time I met Dr Callaway, the first question he asked me was "what are some of your future endeavors?" This is what Robert was about-inspiration! He was bright, articulate and a visionary. Robert was a good friend, mentor, colleague, father and husband. He had an infectious smile and sense of humor that touched everyone. I admired Robert for his work ethic and his willingness to go that extra mile. I will deeply, deeply miss my friend and colleague.

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  5. Robert was someone who touched many lives. He will always be remembered for his genuine respect and appreciation for others, his friendly smile, and his great love for life. My condolences go out to his family and friends.

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  6. Robert was a mentor to me when it came to school board issues as I began my service to a board and he served as an experienced member. He was a smiling and competitive face for me three times a week in the fitness center on campus. We would kid eachother often about our workout routines. He was a guy I could talk sports with. I will miss him greatly. He is a good man and a tremendous loss. My heart goes out to his family.

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  7. I always enjoyed working with Robert--on committees, projects, anything. He was so energetic and positive and was just a pleasure to be around. LCCC will surely miss him.

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  8. It was like someone hit me in the stomach when I was told of Robert's passing this morning. I didn't know him as well as many of my colleagues; but I knew his smile, his sunny disposition and his eagerness to make others feel special. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family, friends and coworkers.

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  9. Robert was a great person. He was always willing to lend a smile and a friendly hello to everyone. He was an inspiration to everyone and will continue to be, leaving great memories with us all. My prayers go out to his family. He will be missed greatly!

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  10. Dr. Callaway made me feel so welcome at LCCC. He struck me as a "gentle giant". His humility, kindness, and soft-spoken nature along with his leadership, wisdom, and vision make him a person who will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and all who have been touched by his life.

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  11. Being fairly new on campus I unfortunately only knew Dr. Calloway a short time. I can say with all genuineness however, that he was one of many who truly welcomed me to the LCCC community, and immediately made me feel as though I had a friend here. His inspiration and vision to the college and community will obviously be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

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  12. What a tremendous loss for our LCCC family, and what an extraordinary gift that we were able to be connected in any way to this wonderful person. Robert was my friend, and he had an impact on my life: both professionally and personally. I know that many of you, my LCCC family, are shedding your own tears as you say the same. His presence was a gift to all of us and I'm grateful for having had the opportunity to know him. My heart (as broken as it is today) goes out to his wife and children. ...and thank you Robert, for setting such a shining example of the person we all aspire to be. Godspeed to you, my friend. I will miss you terribly.

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  13. Simply put, God brought this man, this gentleman, this friend, this GREAT individual into our lives. I just wish that He had let us have Robert and his awesome "sunshine" much, much longer....

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  14. I will miss Robert so much. Just seeing him lope into a room always made me smile. He was truly special, always so positive and friendly. He is someone that made a difference in this world. I am glad to have known him and sad to have to say goodbye so soon.

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  15. Robert was a smiling face, a friendly "how you doin'?", a good friend and a dear person. I am blessed that he touched my life. He will be missed greatly. Words really cannot express how I am feeling at this time. My heartfelt condolences to his family.

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  16. I am shocked and saddened to hear this. In every encounter I had with Robert, his intelligence, warmth and enthusiasm shined.

    Mike Zellers

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  17. Robert will truly be missed. He gave such great advice and was such a motivating and kind hearted person. He gave me great tips when we were both training for a marathon last September; he would send emails advising me to drink lots of water and Gatorade. He was just a great person and will be missed by the many people he touched on a day to day basis. His family is in our thoughts and prayers.

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  18. Today the world lost a great man.

    Robert Callaway was so young, so energetic, so vital! His sudden death reminds us all of the fragility of life.

    I personally knew Dr. Callaway as a brilliant leader with keen insight into matters both human and analytical. He had a witty way with words, bringing charm and charisma into any conversation on any topic. I will miss him terribly.

    Mike Substelny

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  19. Robert was my dean, my colleague and my friend. He gave me advice. He asked for and valued my opinion and he listened to my opinion even when he didn’t ask for it. He made me laugh! He had the courage to admit he made mistakes. He constantly grew as a person and professional and encouraged others to do the same. He inspired me to be the best…. as an instructor, in fitness, in life. He praised me in my accomplishments. I am fortunate to have known and to have been encouraged by such an optimistic and positive person. He will truly be missed. My heart goes out to his family and the LCCC community for our loss.

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  20. one of the nicest most genours men i have know i will miss him dearly

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  21. I had just had the pleasure of making Dr. Callaway's acquaintance this year as a student member of the Diversity Task Force. I had the delight of attending a workshop with him and was taken with his optimism and the ease with which he conversed with anyone. He was an advocate for the students on our campus always willing to lend an ear to the voice of the students at our college. I will deeply miss him but am thankful for having the opportunity to interact with him. My sympathy goes out to his wife and young children for their loss.

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  22. Robert Callaway served not only as our dean, but as our dear and beloved friend. He was always there to listen and give wonderful advice. He often times would enter into the mezzanine where we adjuncts would sit and just shoot the breeze with us. This was the first time, I had encountered that by a department director since my beginnings at LCCC. I am blessed to have been graced by Robert, as we all are. May his soul rest in peace, and may his family know that his presence lives on in each of them.

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  23. Robert was the most positive person I have ever worked with. While he may not have agreed with everything you thought he respected your opinion. He encouraged you to do your best. He had a sense of humor and will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

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  24. Dr.Callaway's presence in the fitness center will be greatly missed. I admired his strength, his smile,his positive attitude and his running stride. Man, that stride was awesome! We are all so lucky to have knowyn him; he taught us much. My prayers are with his family. He will be greatly missed.

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  25. Anyone who ever known Robert will attest to how kind, generous and unpretentious he was. Robert was a talented and hard working colleague plus leader for me. My deepest condolence goes to his family

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  26. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out the Callaway family. There is a saying “people are in our lives for a reason, season, and/or a lifetime.” The LCCC community could truly say that there was definitely a reason that Dr. Callaway came into each one of our lives. As I solemnly read through all the memories of Callaway (this is what I called him) that LCCC family has posted I seen the same heart-filled words—a friend, mentor, leader; a man with enthusiasm, inspiration, high spirits, sense of humor, ethics, respect; and a smile that just lit the day up. This is how we all remember him. When I received the news this morning about Callaway’s passing, I was just in disbelief wondering why a person with such a beautiful heart could have left our family here at LCCC so early in life. I will miss Callaway and he will be missed tremendously here at LCCC, as it has shown throughout this whole work day—the somber and emptiness that we all felt. Although he was here with us for a wonderful season, and most definitely for many reasons, we have years of memories that will last for a lifetime. I know for a fact that individuals who knew Callaway has may funny and uplifting stories to tell about how he has touched their lives personally and professionally. May God Bless and keep his family strong during this time.

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  27. Although this is a great loss, that hit me like a ton of briks, I'm left with only good memorys. Memorys of someone that no matter how bad your day was when you saw him you couldn't help but smile. Dr. Callaway was always so positive. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and children, but also all of those at LCCC who were touched by this kind and happy man. May you rest in peace Dr. Callaway.

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  28. My heart’s filled with sadness today because our great friend, advocate, motivator, leader and ambassador has been called “home”. As I reflect on the impact he has made to all who knew him, it makes me proud to have called him “friend”. My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to his beloved family.

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  29. Robert Callaway cast a long shadow in more ways than one. Though I did not really get a chance to work with him, or to know him better as an individual, all indications were that he genuinely did like the people he worked with --a decidedly rare quality in today's workplace writ large. I join the chorus of co-workers who have already said that he will be missed. My condolences to his family.

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  30. I am indeed stunned to learned this news. I met Robert nearly 15 years ago while we both lived in Bowling Green, OH as he was completing his Ph.D. When I moved to this area and began my career in higher education, Robert was gracious enough to supervise a practicum of mine on the community college for my M.A. program - one of my earliest mentoring experiences. He was an amazing colleague and friend during my time at LCCC. His deep, pensive look while pondering some project or question was always followed by a subtle smile. I admired his stride on the treadmill, self-control at the Chinese buffet down the street, professionalism, and commitment to family.

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  31. I have learned so much from Robert over the past few years and am so sad that he is no longer with us. I will miss his smile, his positive attitude, his intelligence, his ability to think outside of the box, his compassion . . . I cannot believe that he is gone from our lives.

    My deepest sympathies to Tajuana, his children, his family and everyone that he has touched during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

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  32. I will miss Dr. Callaway passing me in the hallways at LCCC always with a big smile and warm hello greeting.
    I am sad to hear this shocking news
    and want to extend my condolences to his family.

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  33. Words alone can not describe what a wonderful person Robert was! He was a true inspiration to us all in our department and I can not imagine what it is going to be like this year walking in everyday as I have since he became the dean and not be able to joke with him. I hope and pray his family is doing well through these difficult times.

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  34. Robert had a good heart, a warm smile and the uncanny ability to find the good in every situation and every individual he encountered. He was one of the most positive people I have ever met. When I think of the word "character," Robert Callaway comes to mind. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family in this difficult time.

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  35. I met Robert during my interview at LCCC. He was on the committee that hired me. He took me on my first walk(run) around the campus. He was walking and I was running to keep up with those long legs. I have served on committees, attended conferences and worked on many projects with him. I am so proud to have known him and so devastated at the loss of one of the kindest, caring and the most good nature person that I have ever met. My heartfelt simpathy goes out to his family and all of us his LCCC family. Why oh why is it always the good ones?

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  36. I know Dr. Callaway from Park Place Early Learning Center where his children attended and one still does. First of all i am so very sorry that he has gone so suddenly and my deepest sympathy goes out to his wife and children you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Dr. Callaway was the friendliest man i have ever met he always greeted me and everyone with a great big smile followed by a hello and how are you. He was always smiling i dont think he ever had bad days he just seemed so happy all the time! His warm smile and friendlyness will be greatly missed at Park Place. Im truely blessed that i got to have his children in my class and that i got to meet this incredible friendly guy!! I cant begin to imagine how his wife and children must feel but please know that im praying for you all! He will be missed!

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  37. I know Dr. Callaway from Park Place Early Learning Center where his children attended and one still does. First of all i am so very sorry that he has gone so suddenly and my deepest sympathy goes out to his wife and children you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Dr. Callaway was the friendliest man i have ever met he always greeted me and everyone with a great big smile followed by a hello and how are you. He was always smiling i dont think he ever had bad days he just seemed so happy all the time! His warm smile and friendlyness will be greatly missed at Park Place. Im truely blessed that i got to have his children in my class and that i got to meet this incredible friendly guy!! I cant begin to imagine how his wife and children must feel but please know that im praying for you all! He will be missed!

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  38. I am so very sorry about the lose of such a lovely man that i got to no so well over the past years. I love the frendly greetings and smiles. I have had all his children in class at Park Place Early Learning Center. They are such good children. He would come in to drop off the kids and greet the staff with such big smiles and just make us fill like as teachers. He will be greatly missed and my thought and prayers go out to all the family. wow he is going to be missed! I love The Callaways!

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  39. I only met Dr Callaway a few times in passing but those times always stayed with me. I feel blessed that I met him.
    My heart goes out to his family your in my prayers.

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  40. I am just so shocked by this news that I am speechless. Robert's positive, can-do attitude was infectious. He worked with me on so many committees and activities that I can't even begin to think of the college functioning without him. He will be greatly missed by many. Prayers for his family.

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  41. WHEN I FIRST HEARD THE NEWS I DIDN'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT ABOUT THE LOST OF MR. CALLAWAY. THEN WHEN IT WAS CONFIRMED, I HAD TO TRY VERY HARD TO COMPOSE MYSELF FOR THE REST OF THE WORK DAY. I WORK AT PARK PLACE EARLY LEARNING CENTER WHERE I HAVE KNOWN THE CALLAWAYS FOR ALMOST 10 YEARS. I WOULD LOOK FORWARD TO THE "GOOD MORNING LADIES" AS MR. CALLAWAY WOULD DROP OFF HIS CHILDREN. I APPRECIATED HOW HIS LITTLE COMMENTS WOULD MAKE ME FEEL LIKE WE WERE A BIG PART OF HIS FAMILY'S LIFE. TO TAJUANA AND THE KIDS - BE STRONG FOR EACH OTHER. MR. CALLAWAY WILL BE MISSED!

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  42. The passing of Dr. Callaway is unthinkable and sad. It is something I really don’t understand. His leadership and presence at LCCC will be sorely missed. I am so privileged to have experienced his inspiration, dedication and guidance. My heartfelt sympathies to his family at home and at LCCC.

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  43. Robert was such a man of grace, such a man of God. He embodied the fruits of the spirit—kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, patience—and encouraged all who knew him to actualize their visions of greatness. I am deeply saddened in knowing that there will be no further opportunities to talk and share, but I am grateful for having known him and respected him as our division dean. Peace and blessings to his family and all of us who will miss him greatly at LCCC.

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  44. I know we are not to ask GOD why and I didnt but my mind and heart kept going there when on friday morning i got a call at home from an old lccc employee who gave me the news first shock them tears and a very heavy feeling ive known Dr. Robert for ten years I can not belive i wont seen his smile or the bounceing stride of him going around the campus or having him come up and pull my daily news paper out from under my arm becaue "he knew i would have the paper" i am really really gonna miss you doc he was just so real and down to earth I hold his wife and three children up before GOD and pray he will wrap them in his arms and give them the peace that passes ALL UNDERSTANDING lccc has lost one of it shining stars, but we were blessed that
    GOD allowed him to be a part of our lives at lccc reat in peace dr. robert you will be miss gone but never forgotten you will be.

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  45. When I heard the news I was in complete shock. I still find it incredibly difficult to believe and know the department will be less without him. I just responded to an email he sent about marathon training, he was getting me fired up about my training again in preparation for the Akron Marathon this coming September, we all were hoping to improve our time. I, and many people I have spoken with, looked up to him and could only hope to be half as positive as he. I pray for his family, especially his wife and children, may they somehow find peace.

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  46. The first time I was introduced to Robert he impressed me with his welcoming attitude. He always invited me to share ideas and I enjoyed our conversations. He was a respectful leader at meetings and workshops and always kept everyone focused on moving forward. His very essence taught volumes on how to successfully accomplish tasks through respecting and honoring the thoughts of others. I will remember him always as a man of great moral, ethical, and intellectual stature. I will miss him. My prayers of support are with his wife and children. May their memories of him bring them courage, and sustain them during this time of loss and grief.

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  47. Dedicate some of your life to others. Your dedication will not be a sacrifice. It will be an exhilarating experience because it is an intense effort applied toward a meaningful end. --Dr Thomas Dooley

    I happen to read this quote this morning and I immediately thought of Robert--my dean, my friend, and someone who fits the quote perfectly. Robert's life has a meaningful end because he touched so many of, all of us, in such a positive way. I will miss seeing him takes those long strides as he walked across the campus, our chats about being on school boards, and his overall positive attitude.

    My wife Michelle and I extend our deepest sympathies to his family.

    Jim McManus

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  48. Anyone who came in contact with Robert Callaway and spent a moment in his company knew he was a special man. Inspiring, kind, authentic, caring, funny, giving, smart, athletic- did I say inspiring- These are just a few words that describe Robert's nature. It is shocking that his goodness will no longer be present on this earth. So I urge us to emulate him and honor him and remeber him as the wonderful person he was. I will miss his smile and wit. I am so very sad for his wife and children. I was blessed to know him. I will pray for peace and strength for his loving family as you endure this tragic loss.

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  49. Though Dr. Robert Callaway was an outstanding Dean, much more importantly than that, he was an exceptional human being. He epitomized why people choose education as their career, always being incredibly thoughtful, kind, caring, giving, inspiring and uplifting to every single person he came in contact with during his very long days on campus, from students to professors to administrators to staff to every member of the LCCC community. He will be forever remembered as a wonderful role model, not only for his many impressive professional accomplishments, but even more importantly as a shining example of how one should live life from day to day. He will be greatly missed, but the legacy he left behind will never be forgotten because it will be reflected in the lives of the many people he touched in such a profound way. My deepest and sincerest condolences to his family, loved ones and everyone who was touched by this extraordinary human being.

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  50. Robert made all aspects of life seem so comfortable and worthwhile. It is his contagious positivity and lingering smile that will pull many hurting loved ones through this rough time, this selfish time when we all feel a deep void. He was the kind of whole person, a rare kind, who always made others feel better about themselves even with just a few moments spent with him. May all who love and miss him be comforted during this time of healing.

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  51. I've known Robert as a colleague, administrator, and community leader during his time at LCCC . . . yet the Robert who comes to mind most prominently is the man with the permanent smile who felt like a genuine friend as soon as you met him. This is a profoundly sad loss.

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  52. Robert was an inspirational colleague. His vigor and vitality was life-giving. His tragic passing has made us all aware of our own mortality, inspiring us to take nothing for granted and make the most of the time we have. I can’t thank Robert enough.

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  53. I am shocked and saddened to hear about Robert Calloway's passing. He was a sincere and passionate individual who cared deeply about his family, his role at LCCC and all the many endeavors, in which he was involved. He never was too busy to stop and chat and had a wonderful sense of humor. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and those that were close to him. He will be sorely missed.

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  54. Robert was a wondereful colleague . . . relentlessly optimistic and genuinely interested in the people around him. I enjoyed working with him in the brief opportunity I had to know him. We are all lucky to have known him, and my heartfelt sympathies are with his family during this time.

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  55. Working with Robert during the sometimes stressful Ohio Award for Excellence application for the college Robert was always positive, upbeat and had an encouraging word. He will be greatly missed.

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  56. I used to tell Dr. Callaway, that he had a "happy" walk, because he had this way of bouncing when he walked. He said, "that's because I'm a happy guy". Truthfully, I never saw him in a bad mood. We have lost a very special person.

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  57. I am still in shock over the news of this sudden loss of Robert. He was truly one of a kind, a person with such great passion for his family and his work. He touched so many of us with his constant smile and positive attitude. It will be difficult to fill the void that has been left. My sincere sympathy goes out to his family during this most difficult time.

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  58. I was very shocked to hear of Dr. Callway's passing. He was always so kind and caring. He will be greatly missed at LCCC. My deepest sympathies go out to his wife and children. I pray that you find peace and strength in this difficult time.

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  59. What I will remember most about this wonderful man is that he didn’t take anyone or anything for granted – through his kindness, respect and friendliness, he let you know you were important to him. I will also remember his thirst for knowledge - looking for the lessons to be learned, something to be done better - but mostly an opportunity to acknowledge or appreciate what was right with the world. Such a positive, life-affirming, awesome person will be sorely missed by this world and the people who loved him. I feel blessed to have known him and will miss him greatly. My deepest sympathies to all his family.

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  60. I am still having difficulty wrapping my mind over the sudden death of Robert. I feel deeply sadden by the loss of this wonderful man. But every time a wave of sorrow hits me I see Robert’s smiling face and I see him shrug his shoulders and I hear his light hearted voice saying “come on Jen enough of that.”

    I said to him recently, “Robert you are always so happy”. He replied “well I’m a happy guy what can I say.” I will never fully understand why someone so young and full of life and with so much to offer would be taken from us and his family. I do know that he would want us to take this opportunity to really look at our lives and to make sure we are living the life we are met to be living to the fullest because it can end at any moment. Robert can rest peacefully knowing that he did live his life to the fullest.

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  61. I will always remember Robert's love of life and his genuineness and kindness in dealing with others. Abe Lincoln said" And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years." and to the life in Robert's years, few can compare. My deepest sympathies to his wife and children. We will miss his warm smile and big heart.

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  62. Robert Callaway was an up & coming bright shining star with no limits to his impact upon LCCC and Lorain County. His passing creates a huge void in these communities.

    Even though his light was extinguished much too early in his life, each one of us will remember the last time we visited with him picturing the young, kind, friendly, optimistic, vital, family man.

    These are the memories which will burn brightly into the future. I will miss a colleague and fitness friend.

    My thoughts are prayers go out to his family

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  63. Dr. Callaway always had a special bounce in his step and a smile on his face. My deepest sympathies to his wife and children, other family members, friends, and to the LCCC family. Rest in peace Robert, you'll be missed.

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  64. Robert was my colleague and a friend for all seasons. His love for life, his family, his friends, and our College impacted each of us in so many ways. Robert will live on in our memories and in the way we care for each other and LCCC.

    I have read the following poem by Mary Frye many times over this past weekend. It is how I would like to remember Robert Callaway ...

    Do not stand at my grave and weep
    I am not there; I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the diamond glints on snow,
    I am the sun on ripened grain,
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you awaken in the morning's hush
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circled flight.
    I am the soft stars that shine at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry,
    I am not there; I did not die.

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  65. My prayers and thoughts go to Robert's family and extended family.

    We have lost a wonderful friend and co-worker but Heaven has gained another star to shine on all of us.

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  66. I met Robert when he started work at LCCC and I was Director of PSI. I'll never forget that Shara and I took Robert to lunch early on to say hello and let him know he had friends. He was always optimistic, friendly, and eager to show pictures of his children!
    What a huge loss for his family, his community, LCCC, and higher education.
    Teresa McCoy, University of Maryland

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  67. Robert was an exceptional man. He made a difference in this world. I will always remember his warm welcoming smile and wonderful sense of humor. I am grateful for having had the opportunity to know him and am sad to have to say goodbye. He will truly be missed. My sincerest sympathy goes out to his family and friends during this difficult time.

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  68. How do you begin to think about the enormity of this loss of such a wonderful man? I was in a brief meeting with Robert last Thursday. He was his usual upbeat and good-humored, vigorous and incisively thoughtful self. The next morning I was stunned and heart-broken by this terrible and incredible news. Of all the qualities that made Robert special, I will always remember his kindness and gentleness. He was, and always will be in my memory, a true gentleman.

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  69. Today is a day we mourn for the life of a great man .
    Lord, this is my prayer .
    Help us all who are mourning for the life of a great man . A man who with smile after smile showed that he really cared for everyone and everything he did.
    Many people misunderstand the entire concept of discovering your life purpose.
    But not this man; he helped us to remember that he lead a life for us to follow. It’s a misconception that only those who sacrifice all worldly possessions or their personal goals and dreams are living with purpose. In actuality, discovering your life purpose will open up a world where you experience joy, satisfaction, contentment, and happiness as you build toward fulfilling your dream life.
    From countless encounters I believe (Dr. Robert Callaway) lived his dream life.
    If bye nothing else just his never endless smile and remembrance of everyone’s name.
    Lord I know you have him in your presence.
    Just help us to honor his life bye following his example.

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  70. My wife and I first met Robert and Tajuana when they moved to BGSU for him to start the Ph.D. program.

    It was a pleasure to have known him as a fellow colleague, friend, runner, etc.

    He was always there for his friends and family and always had a smile on his face.

    I will miss my friend and our hearts and prayers go out to his family and many friends.

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  71. Robert was one of a kind. He was unique, happy, and made all the meetings I attended memorable and fun. I tear up as I read everyone’s comments, but it also makes me smile when I think about how one man could touch so many lives. I will miss Robert Callaway. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends

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  72. Jackie Holland...
    Robert was a man of accomplishment and promise. He served his community and lived his faith. The impact of his life will live a long time. May we continue to bring out the best in people as he tried to do. Robert began a tapestry that we must continue to weave.

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  73. Robert always came to the fitness center with a smile on his face and always walked out with that same smile. He always took the time to speak with the employees and the fitness center users, as many of us were amazed at his drive to stay on that treadmill with his stride and never want to stop till he hit his goal. I got to know Robert as a friend, client and running partner; he always pushed me as I would push him towards his fitness goals. Robert was a huge asset to this college in many ways, his wisdom, knowledge, leadership, and his drive to do the best and offer the best for LCCC and the many other organizations he enjoyed being a part of. Robert will always be a missing part in the fitness center and all those he has encountered. My sympathy goes out to his family.

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  74. Dr. Robert Callaway was my friend and mentor and he will be so sadly missed. I think of Robert as the person we should all strive to be like, kind, thoughtful, and a man who loved God. He was a wonderful husband and father to Tajuana, Ashley, Robert and Christopher. I loved his smile and passion for education. We are all born to die, but Robert's passing leaves many of asking why him? Let us strive to emulate his loving, caring and inspirational life as we remember him in a special way.

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  75. Dr. Callaway will be dearly missed. He had a way of making everyone feel important. I will miss that big smile of his and his kindness to all. His family and friends are in my prayers.

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  76. I never had the opportunity to meet Robert, but I am a very close friend of Tajuana's. Through our many conversations about him and their family, I grew to appreciate what a fine christian and family man he was. Tajuana, you and the kids will always be in my heart and prayers. I love you and I grieve for you. God bless.

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  77. I chuckle as a read your memories of Robert -- his grace, his "loping", his smile, his way of challenging each of us -- because they are my memories too. I was in a meeting with Robert last Thursday and he was his typical self. He loped in with that grin, wished everyone a Happy New Year, shared laughs about Christmas with the kids, he challenged us to do our best. In the course of the meeting, he used a word that has stuck in my head ever since -- "transformational" -- that is what Robert was. He was transformational. Here is a link to some inspiration that has kept me going. When I read it, I am reminded that Robert lived what matters.

    http://www.appleseeds.org/What-Matters.htm

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  78. On behalf of Dr. John Crooks
    Dr. Robert Callaway was truly an inspirational member of the LCCC community, a friend and fellow BGSU alum, and a service oriented leader for the citizens of Lorain County. Robert was the voice and leader for Institutional Effectiveness and Planning and let us not forget the number of complex and difficult topics he facilitated so effectively for our college. He made a transition to an Academic Dean’s role with such grace and ease that few would have known how challenging that change would be for most individuals. He served on numerous committees and was always a strong and positive contributor. As great as his contributions were on campus, I believed he made even greater contributions outside of LCCC. He served on many accreditation teams and provided many pieces of beneficial insights to numerous institutions throughout the North Central region. His service on the Midview School Board was exemplary. His contributions to non-profits, such as Common Ground, were remarkable and he provided the same positive energy in all settings. Robert was also a very proud father and our prayers go out to his wonderful wife and three beautiful children. His believe in family, service, leadership, and excellence was unparalleled. I will miss my colleague and dear friend, Robert Callaway.

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  79. It's hard to believe that Robert will never walk into my office again, give me that big smile and stick out his hand for a hearty handshake to be followed by "Stevie, how's it goin'?" Few people outside of my family still call me that at my age, but Robert was always able to pull it off. Before we got down to business he always had a few moments for "small talk" that didn't necessarily relate to business, but helped make those personal connections and created friendships. I will miss him everyday. My prayers go out to his family.

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  80. I knew of Dr. Callaway from my Sister, Kathy Philen when his wife Tajuana worked at Cuyahoga Community College, Metro Campus a while back.

    Take solice in knowing that God is always there for you Tajuana and your family. He will always be in their hearts and what beautiful memories you will share.

    He was liked by everyone who knew him, I am sorry I did not have the priviledge. God's Speed!

    Kathleen Philen-VanLeer

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  81. Out of respect I called him "Dr. Calloway", and he corrected me by saying just "Robert". He was one of the most positive people I have ever known. He was an exceptional motivator with his encouraging words, his smile and his commitment to fitness. Our daughters played soccer against one another, and he always found a compliment after each game. He had a way of making all people feel good. He is missed.
    My prayers to his wife, children, family, and friends. May God comfort us all at this difficult time.

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  82. I had the honor of knowing Robert as a friend and Midview School Board member. Everytime I saw him, whether at a Midview event or our daughter's soccer games, he had a big smile and always something nice to say. I will miss his leadership and friendship. Thank you Robert for your legacy, I pray for your wife, family, and friends that they may find strength in this difficult time.

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  83. It is hard to comprehend starting the semester without Robert's smile and encouraging words. He corrected me about three times before I became comfortable calling him Robert. Our schedules overlapped; I came to teach in the evening when he was leaving. Often we talked as I xeroxed. About every two weeks he stood right with me as I xeroxed, the Dean of the whole department. We shared about our families. He loved his children so much and I would always think how blessed they were to have such a loving, devoted father. Dr. Robert Callaway will be missed. He was so genuine, so approachable, and so caring. His actions indicated he was a man of integrity striving for excellence in all facets of his life. This was very evident in the workplace. His family is in my prayers at this difficult time. I pray you can be comforted. I will remember Robert always.

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  84. I knew Robert for 8 years and saw him nearly everyday during that time when he was doing what he loved to do- staying fit at the gym. There wasn't a kinder and more affable person that I've ever had the pleasure to know. He was a great person, employee, father, and husband. I wish the best for his family which is in mine and my family's prayers.

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  85. Robert was a man of class. And a man with an unbelievably positive attitude. No matter the situation, he'd never give up that perspective. He'd never have a negative comment about any situation no matter how bleak it appeared. And he was our dear friend. A friend because he spent time talking to each of us-- about our families, our work. We got to know about his life, what he was doing and what his goals were because he took the time to get to know ours. Anything you'd talk to him about, he'd treat with the utmost seriousness and respect. If it was important to you it was important to him. He was so humble and yet had so much to be proud of. His place in the LCCC family has made us all look good for our association with such a great colleague. He made our world a better place in which to live and work-- and now that world's diminished without him. It is with my utmost sincerity and faith in God that that I pray for His peace and comfort upon Robert's wife and family.

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  86. Dr. Robert Callaway was a man of integrity and he epitomized what a 21st century African-American man should be. He was honest, trust worthy and articulate. He will be missed by many. I am hoping that his style of leadership will inspire others. My prayers are with the Callaway family

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  87. I knew Dr. Callaway thru his work as a board member for the Big Brothers Big Sisters of Lorain County. His manner,support and abilities as a facilitator were very helpful to our agency. I am not a person who is easily impressed, but Robert Callaway was a young man who impressed me greatly.

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  88. I am very honored and privileged to have known Mr. Callaway. I met him not only through LCCC but I was the person who took care of his dry-cleaning. I knew he traveled quite a distance to reach our location so we made sure he got the best of the best service. When he would enter those doors to the cleaners his presence was remarkable. First thing he would say when he saw me was “Still in nursing school and are you the owner…..” When he would leave he would always make sure he took some lollipops for his children. I am going to miss seeing his bubbly personality walk through those doors.
    Rather I saw him on campus or at the drycleaners he had this great big smile and such positive energy. He will be greatly missed. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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  89. It is difficult to imagine coming to work without seeing Robert. When I think of him I will always think of that smile or something he said to me and that will make me smile. I feel blessed to have known him if only for a short time.

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  90. Roberts passing was a shock and a wake-up call that God has plans for us all no matter how old you or healthly you are. He will be missed.

    The last time I saw Robert I was walking down Main St. during Grafton's Fall Festival and out of the blue...a tall, bubbly, smiling man comes up to me and said "Hello Kelly how have you been, we miss you at LCCC". I was shocked he remembered my name, though it had only been nine months since I left LCCC. I shouldn't have been shocked because he was the kind of guy who always said your name with a smile on his face and a bounce in his step as he passed you in the hall.

    I feel honored to have known him and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    I hope you save all these special comments for your children someday, so they can read what a WONDERFUL, intelligent, energetic, possitive, encouraging, selfless man he was.

    Thank you for allowing me to share my thoughts and memories.

    ~Kelly Meyer-Lynch

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  91. I was only beginning to learn what an inspiring and thoughtful person Robert was. The last time we spoke he had taken the time to tell me personally that a minor problem had been resolved. A note or an e-mail would have been enough but his personal touch will always be remembered.

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  92. Robert; a man of integrity, a glowing smile, a humble bow of his head, an inspiration, a man of charm, lovely character, a disciple, respectful husband, loving father, a friend to many, wise man with a gentle soul.
    Robert swam/spinned in my triple-threat group at EMH. He was training to become a triathlete to add to his list of running events. He swam like a fish! If his children aspire to be like their father, they will be Olympians and true scholars! Robert gave 110% to achieve his athletic goals. As I have read the above comments, he gave 110% to everything else in his life and always with a smile!
    How can one man be so much? I feel our Lord has chosen to challenge us through reflection and memory so that we may once again, learn from Robert. My deepest respect and prayers go to the Callaways and those whom have been graced by Robert's presence.

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  93. It helps me to take comfort in knowing that Robert is up in heaven, smiling down upon us. I hope that he knows what positive impact he had in our lives and that he made the world a better place.

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  94. bridgitte m. chambersApril 27, 2010 at 7:42 PM

    well, i have beeno out of touch for a very long time, and just learned via friends from livingstone college of robs death..i first met him at livingstone college in 1989> i was a freshman. he was this soft spoken young Kappa Man! his whole persona was that of meekness, humbleness and mildness!hewas such a gentlemen. i can remember when i was on line for kappa sweetheart! (and yes they had sweetheart lines back then), i was such a rebel and one thing i remember him saying is: "bridgitte if u cannot handle this little bit of discipline, you wont be able to handle pledging a sorority"! wow! he will be greatly missed

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  95. I recently learned about rob's death. I knew him well while we both worked on our doctoral degrees at Bowling Green State University. He was very intelligent, genuine, and ambitious. He always had a smile on his face. I knew he was going to be successful. I pray for his family, and it was pleasure to know Robert; he was a beautiful person.

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  96. Celeste Vicki Walker/26 August 2010

    I just learned of Robert's death. My heart is completely overwhelmed with disbelief and sadness. I met Robert 'Scooter' (as we often called him) Callaway in 1982 my Freshman year at Livingstone College. Robert's smile was contagious..if He smiled at you, the Only thing you could do was to smile back..His smile filled your heart and made the day Good. Our group of friends spent 4 years together on the campus of Livingstone College, alot of laughter, so much fun, so many memories. Everybody loved Robert Callaway. His smile will be forever in my memory. My prayers for strength and comfort for his wife and children, and family and friends.

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  97. i never met him but thats my best friends uncle........i feel really bad about his death

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  98. I can't believe I never made a comment here.

    I was so hurt that I am still hurt and it's 2013. Dr. Callaway was my mentor and I used to come in his office all the time and called him all the time to consult on so much of my life, especially my music career...he supported my raps cd's and encouraged me on studies and motivated me to complete school. I know he was a family man because he loved to talk about his wife and son and daughter and I just knew he would be here to send them to college...I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT HE WON'T BE HERE FOR THEM...I knew his son would play basketball and his daughter's boyfriends would be in trouble, this is so messed up can't questioned God but this would be one of the questions I would ask if I could...when I had no one to talk to I could call him...my tears stream down as I even type this today. I would want the men in my family to be as he was. The world lost a great leader even tho all of the world might not have known him. R.I.P Dr. C...I probably could write a whole book here on what you meant to my life...but I'll end this with a God Greatly Blessing over your family...your wife and children...may God carry you in His arms as Mr. C did...!!! much love, Burnetta

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  99. I'm Robert Jr. Son of Robert Callaway. I miss my dad. I miss him so much. I've had a hard time dealing with it. I still am. I didn't get to know him. But I've heard stories of him and how I look and act like him. I wish I could see him in person standing in front of me just one last time. My dad is the greatest.

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  100. Continue to Rest in Peace Dr. Callaway.. Gone but not forgotten...

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